| Dear Ministry Partners, |
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February 2008 |
“It’s the Real Thing!”
Come and see us! That’s right, come and see us. We’ve got so
much to tell you that we have to show you!
After having taken a
short break from the work over the Christmas holiday, Tammy
and I were welcomed back to more “real African” ministry
than I had ever hoped to experience. Though problems in
ministry, including students and pastors falling into sin,
is a universal problem, it’s far more common on the third
world mission field than in the States. We’ve been a little
spoiled in that way until now, but now God has poured the
mother-lode of trouble on us all at once. Before I continue
with this story, we want you to know that, though we’ve
experienced, and are experiencing, some frustration, we
don’t hate this. I don’t understand it either, but somehow
we love what we’re doing here more than ever.
Anyway, during our brief
absence from our Ouagadougou residence (Less than 1 month),
one of our students committed adultery, moved a girl into
our yard with him in spite of being forbidden to do so by
our other employees, purchased things on credit in our
behalf without our permission or knowledge, sold the bicycle
we’d helped him purchase for ministry, started a rumor at
Tinsouka about another employee and church member hoping it
would create a distraction sufficient to protect himself
from discipline, and spoiled our good name among our Muslim
neighbors by said behavior.
As soon as Tammy and I
walked in the yard after our return I told her that
“something was up”, but she assured me that I was just
paranoid. Once the information finally started flowing,
however, it got a little ugly. Since we insisted on
punishing the guilty instead of those who exposed him,
Augustin has turned on us, threatening the ladies involved
in carrying water for our newest building project with a
machete, publicizing that those who exposed him are his
enemies and that they’ve ruined his life, and done all
within his power to hurt the church and its testimony.
Unfortunately here in West Africa telling on someone, no
matter how severe their sin, is considered a worse crime
than the sin itself. It’s very difficult to deal with sin in
a church because people are afraid of the consequences of
confronting sin.
By God’s grace, however,
both we and the church have survived the storm and we’re now
about 2/3 of the way to finishing a 40’ x 18’ building on
the property, our second in 14 months. We’ll soon be adding
to our children’s programs, and after completing the
building project, we’ll be refocusing our attention on
evangelism again and on the serious training of both kids
and adults for future ministry responsibilities. We’ve also
put most of the finishing touches on the new building at
Babo and will be dedicating that building tomorrow (March
1).
Any church that’s ever experienced a major building project
understands that getting things rolling again after the
project has been completed is almost like starting the
church over again, so please pray for us as we try to get
the ball rolling again. We’re going to have little energy
left when we’ll need it the most.
There is also another
issue we’d really appreciate your prayers about at Tinsouka.
A couple of weeks ago, one our young ladies, who happens to
be the second of two wives in a polygamous marriage, became
very ill after having given birth to a son (David-named by
the missionary!). These guys just don’t get the difference
between a mild and a serious illness, so we tried to observe
without involving ourselves too much in the situation,
because when we get involved we pay (Missionaries will
understand that even if pastors don’t.). Finally, realizing
that the care she was getting at a neighboring village
clinic wasn’t enough, we insisted on taking her into
Ouagadougou to the doctor. He said she looked in good shape
to him and sent her home having told her she just needed to
start eating to get her strength back again. The very next
day Justine’s fever soared and we got her back to
Ouagadougou quick, and even the doctor was in a panic
realizing he’d missed something. He sent us to the best
African hospital in the country where we enjoyed another new
African experience that we’ll have to save for another
letter.
After a three day
hospital stay at our expense, Justine was released with
antibiotics to continue fighting an infection she apparently
contracted as a result of a poorly handled delivery at the
village clinic. The doctor assured Marcel (Justine’s
husband) that we had saved her life by bringing her and
Marcel’s testimony in our behalf has somewhat undone the
damage done by Augustin in the village. The shocker came
this last week, however, when we finally got back to the
hospital with Justine for a follow-up visit. The doctor had
a suspicion about her condition, so decided to do an AIDS
test. You got it! We’re now in the thick of real African
ministry. We knew we’d face things like this, but again,
we’ve been a little spoiled up until now. It seems probable
that we’re about to lose a sister in Christ, and possibly a
whole family, as a consequence of polygamy. Marcel had the
two wives, before ever being saved, of course, but there
seems to be little doubt that it was Justine, the second
wife, who brought the problem with her. The doctor advised
us not to tell the couple about the test results until we
visit him again in two weeks so that she can recover from
her current illness before we break the news to her together
and discuss treatment options.
In addition to dealing
with the AIDS problem, we will be facing the added pressure
of their expectations. We helped them to get this far
because we couldn’t stand by and watch a 22 year old girl
with a 105+ fever die without doing anything about it. The
consequence will little doubt be, however, that the majority
of the village will have the expectation that all of
Justine’s future medical expenses will also be the
missionary’s. We obviously can’t do it, it’s not our work!
This situation may well
either kill or solidify the work in Tinsouka forever. We’re
not afraid, and we’re not mad at God, we just want to do the
right thing in God’s behalf. We want His name to be
glorified by our behavior no matter what the response of the
villagers might be.
I know how our prayer
letter editor is going to get this all on one sheet of
letterhead, but this isn’t nearly the half of what we’d like
to share this month. Please bear with us and our prayer
letter writing. We’re now a good ways away from an e-mail
site and, as you can tell, our time has become extremely
precious recently. We’re going to do our best to keep you
posted as things progress, but things are coming at us so
fast right now that it’s hard to keep up. Please keep up
your praying because your prayers have no doubt been what
has maintained the ministry to this point, because we’re
certainly not in control.
Know, however, that we’re
tired, but not discouraged, missing home, but not hating
being here. If you want to know the rest you’ll just have to
come because you’ll never really get it until you really see
it!
Partners,
John & Tammy Cooley |